FAQ

Booking

What types of clients do you see?

I aim for inclusivity and do not discriminate on any basis. My clientele is formed of people from all backgrounds, shapes, identities, and levels of familiarity/experience with providers and kinks. If you are 21+, kind and well-mannered, I'll be happy to spend time with you.

Where can I find your reviews?

I believe our experience should be kept just that—ours. For this reason, I maintain no-review policy for both my privacy and yours.

Can we meet briefly or have a phone call to see if we get along?

Of course, but please note that the rates for my time remain the same.

When will I receive a response?

The first step is to fill out my booking form in full. Emails, incomplete forms, etc. will not be answered. Completed forms will be given a response in 48 hours.

I also will not tolerate vulgarity and general lack of respect, including attempting to engage me in inappropriate conversation. Any communications containing this kind of language will not receive a response.

Is screening required?

Yes. Screening is a non-negotiable and is for compatibility as well as safety. I appreciate your respect for everyone's safety and pleasure.

Do you accept reviews from other providers for verification?

The input from my peers is absolutely valuable, but I will only accept reviews as a supplemental item for screening. Photo identification and/or employment details will still be required.

Patronage

Will you come to [city]?

I'm looking forward to touring more in 2025. In the meantime, please book a FMTY if you'd like to have me in your city. I'm always ready to jet and would love to join you.

Otherwise, you'll hear about my touring and travels by following my Substack newsletter and keeping up with me on Twitter and Bluesky.

Can I use you as a reference for another provider?

With pleasure! Please notify me before promising a reference to another provider. Provided we have enjoyed a booking within the last six months, you may use me as a reference twice in a six-month period.

I always appreciate small gifts for this offering, but if you need additional references (more than two) a donation is a requirement.

Per Noi L'Appuntamento [for our date]

What can I bring to make a great [first] impression?

Besides respectful behavior and grooming, you can delight me by arriving to our date with:

An item from my wishlist

Fresh Flowers — I love red or white roses, peonies, and bouquets with texture

Gift Cards

• Nordstrom

• Amex / Visa

• Bordelle

• Sephora

• AIRE Ancient Baths

Wine — I am a budding oenophile. If there is a special bottle that you enjoy or that you'd like to try together, I happily welcome sealed bottles.

Tips are never expected but always appreciated.

Will you help me plan our date?

You're speaking my language—I am a planner by nature and my curiosity is at your disposal. If you'd like ideas for what to do and where to go, I have plenty of thoughts for how to make our time unforgettable.

Can I make an outfit request?

My personal style is sexy but tasteful, and I make a point of dressing appropriately for any setting. I will never be underdressed or clothed in a way that merits unwanted or negative attention. You'll be proud to have me as your date.

For private attire, I'm happy to accommodate simple requests with notice.

If you're set on seeing me in a particular look, consider gifting me something beautiful or taking me shopping.

Are you kink-friendly?

Assolutamente—I'm an endlessly curious person and love to give and receive. I am regularly engaged in play groups where I have discovered so much about sexuality and the dual natures of pain and pleasure. If you are the exploratory type, you'll find a kindred spirit in me.

A few things that get my juices flowing and that I can enthusiastically provide:

• Light Bondage | Impact Play: My repertoire and skill set is always increasing. For heavier or niche play, please inquire about provider recommendations for duos or otherwise!

• Massage: I am a certified massage therapist and deliver deeply sensual experiences.

• Dirty talk

• Role Play

• Sensation Play (hot/cold, scratching, sensory deprivation)

• Teasing | Edging

• Toys

Particulars

Sizes

Bras 32 DDD

Panties M

Garters S

Dress Size US 6 | EU 36

Shoes 9.5 US | EU 41

Rings 6.5 or 7

please ask before purchasing luxury items as sizing can be difficult!

Do you have piercings / tattoos?

While I adore tattoos, I do not have any of my own.

For piercings, I have several in each ear as well as a navel piercing.

When is your birthday?

I'm a Scorpio woman through and through and celebrate my birthday as much as possible in November (although it's technically the second week).

What do you like to do?

Allora, there is not nearly enough space to detail all of my interests, but a few things you'll find me regularly engaging in are...

• Physical activities. I am not a gym junkie but I'm an active person and love a challenge, be it a new form of dance, a circus class, aerial sports, or even just trying to coordinate my hands enough to do a cool playing card shuffle.

• Traveling, near or far.

• Boots-on-the-ground volunteer work in my immediate community.

• Connecting with friends, new and old, especially over a good meal.

• Watching NBA on TNT and laughing at Chuck.

• Reading—follow me on StoryGraph (@elenamarchetti) to see what I've currently got my nose in.

• Playing dress up with my clothes and lingerie—even better if someone is present to watch.