FAQ

Prenotazione

[booking]

What types of clients do you see?

I aim for inclusivity and do not discriminate on any basis. My clientele is formed of people from all backgrounds, shapes, identities, abilities, and levels of familiarity/experience with providers and kinks. If you are 21+, kind and well-mannered, I'll be happy to spend time with you.

Fellow adult industry professionals, please inquire about sliding scale rates for your booking. I would be flattered to spend time with you!

Where can I find your reviews?

I believe our experience should be kept just that—ours. For this reason, I maintain no-review policy for both my privacy and yours.

Can we meet briefly or have a phone call to see if we get along?

Of course, but please note that the rates for my time remain the same. If you'd like to have a call to plan, I offer phone calls of 20 minutes for $200.

When will I receive a response?

The first step is to fill out my booking form in full. Emails, incomplete forms, etc. will not be answered. Completed forms will be given a response within 48 hours.

I also will not tolerate explicit, vulgar language and general lack of respect, including attempting to engage me in inappropriate conversation. Any communications containing this kind of language will not receive a response.

Is screening required?

Yes. Screening is a non-negotiable and is for compatibility as well as safety. I appreciate your respect for everyone's safety and pleasure.

Do you accept reviews/references from other providers for verification?

The input from my peers is absolutely valuable, but I will only accept references as a supplemental item to better understand your experience. Photo identification and/or employment details will still be required.

Patrocinio

[patronage]

Will you come to [city]?

You'll hear about my travels by following my Substack blog and keeping up with me on Twitter and Bluesky. If it's not on my website, socials, or ads, I'm not planning to be there.

Please book a FMTY or inquire about a sponsored tour if you'd like to have me in your city outside of a planned tour. I'm always ready to investigate new places and would love to join you.

Can I use you as a reference for another provider?

With pleasure! Please notify me before promising a reference to another provider. Provided we have enjoyed a booking within the last six months, you may use me as a reference twice in a six-month period.

I always appreciate small gifts for this offering, but if you need additional references (more than two) a donation is a requirement.

Reminder that I give but don't take: I do not accept references as a form of verification.

I JUST found you, I'm only in town for one more night, and I'm just DYING to see you. Are you by chance available for a same-day date??

At home in Chicago, I stay busy, but my schedule can be flexible so you never know. I'll say this: The right approach opens all doors.

Successful last-minute dates with new suitors happen because:

• ALL required booking/screening information was sent in the initial request

• The date is compelling — interesting experience, dining or otherwise

• The request is reasonable — I have notice earlier in the day, and the date length is neither overly short or long

• A gift (wishlist item or financial tip) was sent as a token of appreciation

• You understand and agree to any rush fees incurred

• You're ready to send an electronic deposit as soon as I complete screening and give the OK to secure our time

For tours, I try extra hard to accommodate same-day requests, however prebooking is always recommended to make sure we have the time that's best for you.

Per Noi L'Appuntamento

[for our date]

What can I bring to make a great [first] impression?

Spoil and be spoiled, amore. Besides respectful behavior and grooming, you can delight me either by sending a gift in advance or arriving to our date with:

An item from my wishlist

Tips — Never expected but always appreciated.

Gift Cards

• Nordstrom

• Uber

• Ulta

• Ebay

Fresh Flowers — The bigger the better. Fragrant peonies. Colorful wildflowers. A giant bouquet of classic red or white roses. Nerine Floral in Chicago.

Wine — You'll be in the presence of a budding oenophile. If there is a special bottle that you enjoy or that you'd like to try together, I happily welcome sealed bottles.

Refreshments / Snacks — Unflavored chilled sparkling water. Fresh pastries, especially croissants. Savory items.

A sexy playlist or album suggestion — Perhaps because I've always been in client-centric and/or service industries, I'm hyper-cognizant of vibes. I always have something cued up but love to know what makes you pulse.

What SHOULDN'T I bring?

Unsealed Items — Anything that we'll be using or imbibing that is unsealed (props, toys, food, beverages, etc.)

Sweets —It really pains me to write this. I have a great and terrible sweet tooth and no self-control. For this reason, I prefer to enjoy sweets when we're together out on a date, rather than at home on my couch alone in the dark. If you're set on bringing treats, consider something savory that may actually nourish me.

Will you help me plan our date?

Parlate la mia lingua (You're speaking my language)—I am a planner by nature and my curiosity is at your disposal. If you'd like ideas for what to do and where to go, I have plenty of thoughts for how to make our time unforgettable.

You're gorgeous and I want to take you out, but I don't drink/eat meat/etc...

That's okay! I'm drunk on life and eat everything, so I can take or leave whatever. Be sure to specify if it's imperative that I abstain, or if you don't care either way.

I am 4/20 friendly. When imbibing anything, I am always composed and mind myself, and I expect the same from you.

Do I need to dress up or do special grooming?

Look good, feel good. While you absolutely don't need to dress up—unless we're headed somewhere that requires as much—I plan to arrive in a tidy outfit that presents me in my best light, and I appreciate that you do the same.

For grooming, I will be clean and fresh and you should plan to do so as well. Upon arrival, you will be asked to brush your teeth and wash your hands, and possibly to shower. So long as you are hygienic, special grooming is not necessary.

...Can you expand on what you mean by "hygienic?"

Happily! Grazie in anticipo for your self-awareness.

• Teeth brushed, tongue scraped

• Smelling neutral (i.e. not of cigarette smoke, sweat, or heavy fragrance)

• Nails trimmed, filed, and clean

• All nooks and crannies of the body thoroughly washed

Every date starts with washing your hands and a swig of mouthwash for both of us. If you're not sure if you're fresh, you can always err on the side of caution and have a shower. If I'm not busy looking cute, I'll join you.

Can I make an outfit request?

My personal style is sexy but tasteful, and I make a point of dressing appropriately for any setting. I will never be underdressed or clothed in a way that merits unwanted or negative attention. You'll be proud to have me as your date.

For private attire, I'm happy to accommodate simple requests with notice.

If you're set on seeing me in a particular look, consider gifting me something beautiful or taking me shopping.

Are you kink-friendly?

Assolutamente—I'm an endlessly curious person and love to give and receive. I am regularly engaged in play groups where I have discovered so much about sexuality and the dual natures of pain and pleasure. If you are the exploratory type, you'll find a kindred spirit in me.

Play partners can expect to discuss interests, prior experience, and boundaries before our time together.

A few things that get my juices flowing and that I can enthusiastically provide:

• Light Bondage | Impact Play: My repertoire and skill set is always increasing. For heavier or niche play, please inquire about provider recommendations for duos or otherwise!

• Massage: I am a licensed massage therapist and deliver deeply sensual experiences with oils or Nuru gel.

• Dirty talk

• Role Play

• Sensation Play (hot/cold, scratching, sensory deprivation, etc.)

• Teasing | Edging

• Toys

Particolari

[particulars]

Sizes

please ask before purchasing luxury items as sizing can be difficult!

Bras || 34 DD

Panties || M

Garters || S

Dress Size || US 6 | EU 36

Shoes || 9.5 US | EU 41

Rings || 6.5 or 7

Do you have piercings / tattoos?

While I adore tattoos, I do not have any of my own.

For piercings, I have several in each ear as well as a navel piercing.

Food-wise: any allergies or aversions?

None! Bring it on.

When is your birthday?

I'm a Scorpio woman through and through and celebrate my birthday as much as possible in November (although it's technically the second week).

What do you like to do?

Allora, there is not nearly enough space to detail all of my interests, but a few things you'll find me regularly engaging in are...

• Physical activities. I am not a gym junkie but I'm an active person and love a challenge, be it a new form of dance, a circus class, aerial sports, or even just trying to coordinate my hands enough to do a cool playing card shuffle.

• Traveling, near or far.

• Spa days! High-end, hole-in-the-wall, and everything in between.

• Boots-on-the-ground volunteer work in my immediate community.

• Connecting with friends, new and old, especially over a good meal.

• Watching NBA on TNT ESPN and laughing at Chuck.

• Reading—follow me on StoryGraph (@elenamarchetti) to see what I've currently got my nose in.

• Playing dress up with my clothes and lingerie—even better if someone is present to watch.

© 2026 Elena Marchetti

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Disclaimer: Compensation is for my time and companionship only. Anything else that may or may not occur is between two consenting adults and is not contracted. It will be understood that any persons contacting me understands and accepts these terms.

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