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Discretion and How I Handle Your Privacy

Opsec is as much of a concern for escorts as it is for clients. Chicago escort Elena Marchetti discusses security and how she keeps private time private.

I waited years to put Elena online. Though active in this industry in Chicago and beyond, I've famously been off social media. I'd say with ease that the greatest reason for that choice was security and privacy.

I wouldn't call myself shy in the least, but I prefer that my life be off-the-record. I take painstaking efforts to keep my digital footprint in all areas of life as light as possible. I'd rather be known to a smaller but deeply intimate audience and enjoy the expression and nuance that those private, offline experiences allow. If you prefer the warm glows of candlelight or the moon to that of a computer screen, you and I will get along perfectly.

Opsec (operations security) is a practice. It's something I actively work on, trying to stay vigilant and apprised of potential concerns. It's the first thing I think of because it's the last thing I want you to have to think about, especially when you're imagining being with me. Increasingly it's become a major part of my lifestyle. I think I wear it well, no?

Here's how I keep our time together as ours:

1. Screening

All potential paramours must screen before each date, and this practice is non-negotiable. This minimal personal information ensures that we have a baseline of safety and trust for everyone's comfort. It is simply impossible for me to agree to spend private time with someone I know nothing about.

Especially with new clients, there can be concern and hesitation with sharing personal identifying information (PII). Be assured that all reputable providers will require some level of screening. I respect your openness and treat your information with care, and this simple upfront task is well worth the resulting time we'll enjoy together.

2. Secure (and Encrypted) Communications

Any and all communications we may have are sensitive, meaning that I use services and practices to keep them safeguarded.

For email, I use ProtonMail. If both the sender and the recipient are using ProtonMail, it's an end-to-end (E2E) encrypted email experience. It's free and I encourage its use in planning our play over other platforms like Google or Microsoft. Proton has become an all-in-one security focused platform and also offers a VPN, cloud storage, calendar, spreadsheet and document platform, and even a crypto wallet.

For texting, I use Signal as much as possible. Like ProtonMail, if we're both using Signal, it's E2E as well. It's available for iPhones and Androids, doesn't log IP Addresses, logs minimum amounts of data in general, and messages are set to disappear.

This means that the person you're contacting only knows what you've shared in your Signal profile. Furthermore, only the two parties in contact can see their messages. Even Signal doesn't have access to the contents of our messages.

Signal cannot be used in place of your phone number for screening, but be assured I do not call or text any phone numbers provided without your prior approval.

3. Cryptocurrency Adoption for Electronic Payments

However you feel about crypto evangelists, there is a lot of privacy focused utility in sending deposits and tips with cryptocurrencies. Deposits are required for all clients for every date, so I offer as many secure options as possible for your convenience.

I've made a specific effort to accept crypto as payment because as an escort, I face many obstacles with traditional financial institutions including debanking and increased scrutiny. Never mind that I pay my taxes like everyone else! And on the client side, when money is sent via more mainstream outlets like Zelle, CashApp, Venmo, YouPay, etc., there is a line item on your account statement showing the payment processor used, who the money was sent to, and for how much. Crypto payments offer a discreet alternative.

I accept all major cryptocurrencies. However my preference for privacy is Zcash (ZEC) as it offers shielded transactions. Our identities are simply a long string of text serving as a wallet address. Furthermore, this means that as the sender, you can see everything about the transaction you've initiated. However, as the recipient, I can only see how much was received and when, and the contents of any included memo. Otherwise, the details of the transaction are totally private and any outside parties (including Zcash operators) can only see that a transaction happened.

4. Data Deletion

As soon as our date has passed, your screening information and all other sensitive or otherwise identifying communications are deleted. And then I delete those deleted items so that my trash isn't holding any unsavory secrets. (Besides wrappers loudly revealing that I can't quell my loves for anything made with puff pastry or for extra-dark chocolate with sea salt, my culinary Achilles' Heels.)

Generally speaking, all of my communications are set to disappear/be deleted after a set amount of time. Your information is never retained without your knowledge and consent.

5. Offline Conduct

When we're out, it's likely that I'll be noticed. It's just what happens with beautiful women like myself, can't be helped.

So while I'll stand out, it will never be for the wrong reasons. Be assured that I'll be dressed alluringly but appropriately for the setting, and that how I act and speak in public will betray nothing except that I'm flush with excitement to be in your company.

I always prioritize discreet entrances and exits, so while you can note these needs, you can be sure I'm already planning for that on my end.

6. Photos

You'll find that I'm happy to ditch the devices during our time together. We have all we need right in front of us.

During our dates, I may take photos of myself, the ambiance, or the location. Most times, these are memories for myself, but sometimes I won't be able to resist posting them on social media. When I do post, any exif/metadata is removed from photos. Photos are posted long after we've left the scene, and also so that the location is public and unrecognizable. Any specifics of you or other identifying information are left out. You are always free to request that photos not be taken.

7. Sharing of Identifying Information

I love gossip and drama on television, not in my life and work. So you'll find I don't kiss and tell, period. This goes for the details of our verbal, written, or other communications as well as our experiences.

The only time I will share specifics about you or our encounters are when you request me to do so in order to provide a reference to another verified provider. Otherwise, these juicy lips are sealed.

I miei amanti are always welcome to ask about my security protocols, they are always evolving. Preferably followed by a sensual, relaxing—and, yes—private time.

© 2026 Elena Marchetti

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